6 Ways To Make Her Notice You (How To Get A Girl's Attention)

Whether you’re out and about, at work, or grabbing a coffee or drink with friends, these are the best (non-creepy or douchey) ways to get a girl’s attention.

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There are a number of ways you can attract a woman's gaze. However, these need to be executed smoothly and tactfully for them to actually work.

Own The Space Around You

One way to get a girl’s attention is to take up more space. Insecure men often shrink away, collapsing their shoulders, hoping they won’t stick out. Confident men, on the other hand, have no trouble showing it through their comfortable, natural body language.

One great way to take up more space and project confidence is by standing up straight and keeping your hands out of your pockets.

Look Approachable

Beyond looking confident, you also want to show women you are friendly and approachable. How do you do this? One trick is to simply stay alert and engaged in your environment by making eye contact and smiling at people who walk by.

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Be Social

A great way to get girls to notice you is to start fun, friendly conversations with the people around you. If you’re not sure how to do this, one trick is to take note of what a person is wearing or eating and drinking and use that as the on-ramp to a conversation.

Dress Well

Seems like a no-brainer given the site you’re reading, but dressing sharp and looking clean goes a long, long way to getting girls to notice you.

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Be Complimentary

If there’s someone you’re eyeing, ask her a question about her drink if it’s unique looking, or compliment her outfit, eyes, or her smile. If she engages, remember to make eye contact, smile, and say her name throughout the conversation.

Make Eye Contact

We discussed earlier about making eye contact with people walking by to be more approachable. However, making direct eye contact with the girl you’re interested in is the surest way to get her attention. And also the surest way to tell if she’s interested. If she holds it longer than normal and/or keeps looking in your direction, that’s as big as a cross-the-room greenlight as you’re going to get.

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